Do you ever have difficulty accepting compliments?
Oh, this old thing?
It's no big deal...
Really, I didn't mind.
Take a few minutes, and allow these words to sink in. I promise you might try looking at compliments differently.
When people take the time to give compliments, it's not like they're giving them out with hidden agendas.... but I wonder why we are so apt to push them down instead of accepting them. If someone wants to let you know that they like your new shirt (regardless of whether you bought it on clearance), or if you saved them a seat at the movie theater (even if the rest of the seats were empty) or if they mentioned you did a great job on a project at work (that took you all of 5 minutes to prepare for) -- say thank you.
As the video explains, "Accepting compliments doesn't mean that you are arrogant or conceded, it is healthy for both you and your relationship by validating your partner's thoughts." Whether in dating/marital relationships, friendships, families, work, or even stranger relationships... the next time you are offered a compliment, accept it graciously with a thank you.
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